relationships as a path

of unfolding into wholeness

Can relationships truly be a path to wholeness?

For me, the answer is deeply personal: yes.

I am fascinated by the magic of human connection. Especially by those rare moments where something deeper emerges, beyond words or agendas. But also by the dynamics that are at play and influence how alive we feel. After years of leadership in the public sector, I realized my deepest calling was to help others discover this magic and grow capacity to live a life in connection and presence.

My work is about creating spaces where people can truly meet: themselves, others, the unfolding moment and life. Here, transformation happens not through force, but through the beauty of connection and trust in what arises. I call it a natural unfolding.

On this website you can read more about my work as a Transformational Coach, senior Circling leader & trainer, and teacher of the Non Linear Movement Method®.

Feel free to browse around, and if something resonates, let’s connect!

With love, Ellen

About my coaching

My style of coaching focusses on deepening contact with the present moment, embodying your innate wholeness, and facing life’s challenges with a sense of completeness and resourcefulness.

My clients are on the path of personal development. They often have a calling to be of service in the world and to contribute to the collective, cultural transition. They aspire to be their most unique selves, offering their unique gifts in service of the evolution of the world and humanity.

My coaching practice integrates multiple paradigms, blending depth psychology, trauma-informed somatic techniques (such as movement and self-touch), and spirituality. This approach allows for a holistic exploration of your personal unfolding, supporting your integration and deeper self-awareness in a compassionate and grounded way.

My work integrates:

  • Over 20 years of experience in Leadership, Leadership Development and Organisational Change

  • Circling and Circling Coaching

  • Relational Intelligence and Adult Development theory

  • WE-space and presencing practice

  • Non Linear Movement Method®

  • Partswork (Internal Family Systems Therapy)

  • Essence Work (based on Diamond Approach and Diamond Logos)

  • Tantric Philosophy

    Read more about this style of coaching.

  • "Humanity is Just Beginning to Wake up to the Importance of Relationship and its Amazing Potential.” A.H. Almaas

    A.H. Almaas

Boost relational intelligence in organisations

Using the social technology Circling and the art of conscious relating, I help evolve more presence, connection, aliveness and awareness of interconnectedness in professional contexts.

By bringing these into working realities we sharpen feedback systems and help cultivate cultures with more trust, honesty and empathy and creativity and joy flow more freely.

I work with people, teams and companies—from startups to the public sector and from schools to hospitals— in transformation and focus on leadership (development), organizational change, trust, authentic communication and conscious relating in the professional context.

This work includes:

  • Consultancy and in-company trajectories

  • Executive coaching and leadership team coaching

  • Trainings in presence, connection, advanced communication skills and collective presencing

  • Public trainings in leadership development and relational mastery

I train and mentor coaches and facilitators internationally in their professional development in these areas.

Collaboration and Partnership

I believe in the power of connection, how it can amplify our work, deepen our insights, and open up new realms of possibility. The partnerships I engage in are rooted in a shared commitment to authenticity, presence, and embodied leadership. I am fortunate to work alongside a diverse community of changemakers, facilitators, coaches, and visionaries—each one dedicated to fostering deeper, more meaningful ways of leadership and relationship..

In our shared spaces, we explore, challenge, and support each other’s growth. We co-create opportunities for unfolding, leaning into the unknown and trusting the collective wisdom that emerges when we meet each other in full presence. It is in this relational field where true innovation and transformation occur.

Through collaboration, we co-create from a place of mutual unfolding. These partnerships are invitations to step into what is greater than the sum of our individual contributions, expanding our collective capacity to lead, connect, and serve.


the people and organisations I collaborate with:


Circling Europe - is the biggest school for Circling and Transformational Connection practices in the world. I am senior leader in their organisation and I am a lead-faculty in their trainings and courses.

Coaches Rising - is transforming the field of coaching by creating inspiring and cutting edge trainings for coaches globally. My contribution to their mission is:
1. leading the international hosting team that provides professional hosting of the live sessions for the training programs.
2. Facilitation of the Mastery Sessions in the courses, which are relational spaces for deep practice and embodiment for the coaches.

Lieselotte Nooyen - Lieselotte is a coach, facilitator, and trainer in systemic constellation work and an unstoppable force of nature. She doesn't just teach; she embodies skilfully the full spectrum of being and doing, drawing from a deep well of presence and wisdom. Together, we collaborate to offer transformative workshops and training that ignite intuition and how to work with intuition with individuals and groups.